I don't have time for this...

Anonymous: in general, the best bet is just to come out quickly and to do it in any way you feel comfortable. my gf was so nervous about coming out to her Catholic mom - she had panic attacks and insomnia for at least three weeks. her mom was great about it - a little confused, but very supportive. you honestly never know how it's going to go - it could be great, it could be really tough, but generally it's best to just do it and take the chance.

:)