I don't have time for this...

stumbleupstumbleon: I have a friend who came out to her uber conservative dad in a letter and it worked out wonderfully. Everyone is different, but I think what everyone has in common is that it takes time to accept it. It sounds like it wouldn't make a huge difference in your relationship, anyway, but I can understand how you're still worried. It sounds like you're uncomfortable not being totally honest about it, and in the end it's about what's going to make you and your lady happy. :)

Thanks so much :)